When you know, you are not the one they are thinking about anymore

You always hear people say that a man's biggest mistake is to allow another man have the pleasure in making  the woman they love smile. This cannot be stressed enough. All relationships have their ups and downs but the most important thing is to be able to move past the downs and retain the smile that was once there. Once that smile fades, you face the danger of seeing the girl walk away and chances are there are no redemptions, no apologies, no rewind that can bring them back.

We must always remember to never stop chasing because the second the chase is gone, then all thats left is a path down the road of tolerance and eventually all the memories of the days that you were once crazy about each other become just a haze of cloud in which you forgot what it felt like to give them your all and expect nothing in return. I'm talking about the unconditional love you offer them because they mean that much to you and no matter what happens, you will fight for the word "us" rather than "you" or "I". Once "us" is no more, keep in mind that whether you move on or not, they will have and there will be someone out there that will take your place. Take the place of the person who will chase them to the worlds end. Take the place of the person who is capable of making them have a genuine smile that can turn anything upside down. When you have reached this point, all thats left is to face the fact that your path is now without them and their path will only inevitably become parallel with someone else.

You cannot control who they see, who they talk to, who makes them happy. You had your opportunity in making them feel like no one else in the world can love them as much as you do. But you fucked it up, and now you will have to see them develop those feelings for another individual. Even if you still care for them more than the world itself, you are no longer capable of providing them with the feelings they wanted, the feeling they hoped to have for you in the past. I've said this plenty of time before, but you are once again left with only yourself and a world without them.

Quit the facebook stalking, quit the thinking about them everyday, quit the wishing you can just go back to a time when you were crazy about each other. All these things will hurt you more because you will only start seeing that what you two were at once is now a repeat, but with someone else in their lives. You can try talking to them as much as you can, but eventually you will just become the annoy person that keeps bothering them and no allowing them to move on. You are basically making a fool out of yourself. All those love stories you read and videos you watch about moving on does not apply to you because you still feel like all the advice are from people that are bitter, and you just cant admit to yourself that perhaps the bitter one is you. But who else is there to blame but yourself. You had your warnings multiple times. They kept telling you that they dont want to lose feelings for you, that all they wanted was for you to express to them how much you mean to them. Please, just please, take those advice and do not take anything for granted. Havent you heard people say all the time that you dont know whats gone until you've lost it? Well that's exactly what happened and you could have prevented it but you were too busy preoccupied with other things.

That person they are with now, it could have still been you, but its not. Never thought it would have been this way 3 months ago did you? Well things change, and people change, if you didnt want it to become what it is today, then you should have done something about it a long time ago.